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Monday, January 17, 2011
Sunday, January 16, 2011
How Much Do I know About Him
1. He’s sitting in front of the TV, what is on the screen?
_ NBA (if merong live na game), History or Discovery Channel or NatGeo. (But he would switch channels AGAD and leave his FAVOURITES whenever I tell him that there’s an interesting show in another TV station haha)
2. You’re out to eat; what kind of dressing does he get on his salad?
_ He’s not much of a salad fan. Very unlikely na kakain siya ng salad if there is another option. Kumakain lang pag pinipilit ko siyang tumikim :)
3. What’s one food he doesn’t like?
_ Sa ngayon, tingin ko wala.. (?)
4. You go out to eat. What drink/s does he order?
_ He goes for softdrinks (specifically Coca-Cola products ONLY haha). If a foodchain or resto or any kainan serves other products, its either he’d go for Iced Tea or kakain sa ibang place :)
5. Where did he go to high school?
_ Ilocos Norte National High School – Special Program in the Arts
6. What size shoe does he wear?
_ He is size 9, but he usually goes for 10, he’s more comfortable with them.
7. If he were to collect anything, what would it be?
_ He collects a lot of stuff back then like books ( especially the BOURNE series), but now, I guess he’s too busy with work to think about collecting stuff. I guess, as of now, anything for his XBOX..
8. What would he eat every day if he could?
_ PALABOK!!!! You would always see that certain smile of satisfaction whenever he does haha (kahit pa di kasarapan yung kinain)
9. What would he never wear?
_ Anything pink!
10. What is his favorite sports team?
_ LA Lakers.. ;)
11. Who will he vote for President?
_ Ahm, will? Wala pa namang election, so..on to the next question
12. Who is his best friend?
_ He doesn’t have any bestfriends. He has friends and buddies but not that super close. He was hanging-out with Kuya Elwin Guerrero and Kuya Johnrief Paraoan then..they were pretty much close, not just that tight
13. What is one thing he wishes you wouldn’t do?
_ Ipagpalit daw siya :) He keeps on asking me that - to never do it. Well I guess it’s just his way of telling me that he wants me for him alone..
14. You bake a cake for his birthday; what kind of cake?
_ Chocolate Mousse.. but then, I don’t know how to bake one.
15. Did he play sports in high school?
_ Yes, when he was in high school, but not necessarily for the team of the school. He played basketball and airsoft (it’s considered a sport, right?).
16. What could he spend hours doing?
_ As of now, playing XBOX 360 games by himself or with his brothers, Jason and Jayvee.
17. What is one unique talent he has?
_ Unique talent? Well, tingin ko naman lahat ng talent na meron siya meron sa ibang tao (sa dami ba naman ng tao sa mundo :P)
Part 2
How long have you been together?
_ days from now..will be a year already, officially.
How long did you know each other before you started dating?
_ Well, we’ve practically known each other for three years, because we were classmates haha
Who asked whom out?
_ Him.. I know it took him a lot of courage to ask me that..haha (It was Sir Mandac, Sir Jay Pee, and Sir Adrian’s fault..and almost all the faculty of CBEA..haha)
How old are each of you?
_ We’re both 21, but he’s older by almost 6 months :)
Whose siblings do you see the most?
_ His
Which situation is the hardest on you as a couple?
_ That – I prefer not to discuss.. privacy matters,haha
Did you go to the same school?
_ in College..
Are you from the same home town?
_ Definitely not! :)
Who is smarter?
_ Him, but he would never accept it haha, and would insist otherwise, ALWAYS!
Who is the most sensitive?
_ That would be me
Where do you eat out most as a couple?
_ We prefer food chains especially when we are super gutom. He would always suggest McDo first, because he knows that I would die if McDo would be taken out of my system. Haha
Where is the farthest you two have traveled together as a couple?
_ depending on the point of reference..ahaha
Who has the worse temper?
_ AKO!
Who does the cooking?
_ I do..but he always makes sure to offer some help :)
Who is the neat-freak?
_ I guess it depends on our mood, haha. But we seem to be cleaning-up everything whenever we are together..ang ayos ng mga bagay-bagay pag ganun
Who is more stubborn?
_ Both..haha walang gustong magpatalo pag mga kulitan at asaran lang naman
Who wakes up earlier?
_ Him! He goes to work early..
Who is more jealous?
_ Both
Who eats more?
_ Siya malamang! haha
Who does the laundry?
_ di naman iisa ang aming laundry..haha we live away from each other
Who’s better with the computer?
_ Naman! Wala ako sa kalingkingan niya. hehe
Turns out that I got everything right, except for the food he doesn’t like to eat..The answer?? Ampalaya!! Well, I know he hates it..pero he eats naman kasi ampalaya with egg..haha. ♥
_ NBA (if merong live na game), History or Discovery Channel or NatGeo. (But he would switch channels AGAD and leave his FAVOURITES whenever I tell him that there’s an interesting show in another TV station haha)
2. You’re out to eat; what kind of dressing does he get on his salad?
_ He’s not much of a salad fan. Very unlikely na kakain siya ng salad if there is another option. Kumakain lang pag pinipilit ko siyang tumikim :)
3. What’s one food he doesn’t like?
_ Sa ngayon, tingin ko wala.. (?)
4. You go out to eat. What drink/s does he order?
_ He goes for softdrinks (specifically Coca-Cola products ONLY haha). If a foodchain or resto or any kainan serves other products, its either he’d go for Iced Tea or kakain sa ibang place :)
5. Where did he go to high school?
_ Ilocos Norte National High School – Special Program in the Arts
6. What size shoe does he wear?
_ He is size 9, but he usually goes for 10, he’s more comfortable with them.
7. If he were to collect anything, what would it be?
_ He collects a lot of stuff back then like books ( especially the BOURNE series), but now, I guess he’s too busy with work to think about collecting stuff. I guess, as of now, anything for his XBOX..
8. What would he eat every day if he could?
_ PALABOK!!!! You would always see that certain smile of satisfaction whenever he does haha (kahit pa di kasarapan yung kinain)
9. What would he never wear?
_ Anything pink!
10. What is his favorite sports team?
_ LA Lakers.. ;)
11. Who will he vote for President?
_ Ahm, will? Wala pa namang election, so..on to the next question
12. Who is his best friend?
_ He doesn’t have any bestfriends. He has friends and buddies but not that super close. He was hanging-out with Kuya Elwin Guerrero and Kuya Johnrief Paraoan then..they were pretty much close, not just that tight
13. What is one thing he wishes you wouldn’t do?
_ Ipagpalit daw siya :) He keeps on asking me that - to never do it. Well I guess it’s just his way of telling me that he wants me for him alone..
14. You bake a cake for his birthday; what kind of cake?
_ Chocolate Mousse.. but then, I don’t know how to bake one.
15. Did he play sports in high school?
_ Yes, when he was in high school, but not necessarily for the team of the school. He played basketball and airsoft (it’s considered a sport, right?).
16. What could he spend hours doing?
_ As of now, playing XBOX 360 games by himself or with his brothers, Jason and Jayvee.
17. What is one unique talent he has?
_ Unique talent? Well, tingin ko naman lahat ng talent na meron siya meron sa ibang tao (sa dami ba naman ng tao sa mundo :P)
Part 2
How long have you been together?
_ days from now..will be a year already, officially.
How long did you know each other before you started dating?
_ Well, we’ve practically known each other for three years, because we were classmates haha
Who asked whom out?
_ Him.. I know it took him a lot of courage to ask me that..haha (It was Sir Mandac, Sir Jay Pee, and Sir Adrian’s fault..and almost all the faculty of CBEA..haha)
How old are each of you?
_ We’re both 21, but he’s older by almost 6 months :)
Whose siblings do you see the most?
_ His
Which situation is the hardest on you as a couple?
_ That – I prefer not to discuss.. privacy matters,haha
Did you go to the same school?
_ in College..
Are you from the same home town?
_ Definitely not! :)
Who is smarter?
_ Him, but he would never accept it haha, and would insist otherwise, ALWAYS!
Who is the most sensitive?
_ That would be me
Where do you eat out most as a couple?
_ We prefer food chains especially when we are super gutom. He would always suggest McDo first, because he knows that I would die if McDo would be taken out of my system. Haha
Where is the farthest you two have traveled together as a couple?
_ depending on the point of reference..ahaha
Who has the worse temper?
_ AKO!
Who does the cooking?
_ I do..but he always makes sure to offer some help :)
Who is the neat-freak?
_ I guess it depends on our mood, haha. But we seem to be cleaning-up everything whenever we are together..ang ayos ng mga bagay-bagay pag ganun
Who is more stubborn?
_ Both..haha walang gustong magpatalo pag mga kulitan at asaran lang naman
Who wakes up earlier?
_ Him! He goes to work early..
Who is more jealous?
_ Both
Who eats more?
_ Siya malamang! haha
Who does the laundry?
_ di naman iisa ang aming laundry..haha we live away from each other
Who’s better with the computer?
_ Naman! Wala ako sa kalingkingan niya. hehe
Turns out that I got everything right, except for the food he doesn’t like to eat..The answer?? Ampalaya!! Well, I know he hates it..pero he eats naman kasi ampalaya with egg..haha. ♥
To Her Friend...
Truth is..I am not aware of what really happened that day. I don’t know the reasons behind their decision. I don’t intend to know anymore. I’m just happy that she is ok. And whoever is making her feel that way, THANK YOU. I owe you a lot. Continue what your doing. I’ll be behind your back as long as she’ll be wearing that smile and that glow in her face (even if I can’t see it I know). AND I will be watching you, so beware. =)
Thank You
“Love yourself first before loving anybody else, so that in the end, when things will be rough, you won’t end up pitying yourself.” This is always the advice people give to those who are in a relationship, especially to those who are “adik-adik” to their boyfriend or girlfriend, who spend so much of their attention and time for their behalf, instead of their own self first.
But I still can’t quite understand though why you still choose to love me with everything first - to the point that I always come first in your schedule, you say yes to every request I ask as long as it’s reasonable and it’s within your capability, and more..more than I can think of. And whenever I ask why, you say “Eh siyempre, ganun ka kaimportante sakin eh..Ganun lang talaga kita kamahal..na gusto ko lagi kang ok at masaya..” And I always end up crying whenever you tell me that..
It’s not that I don’t believe anything, it’s just that I’m too hard-headed to just absorb everything..haha, I guess it’s just because until now, di pa din talaga ako makapaniwala that you’re with me now..the most unexpected thing that has ever happened to me. But I’m very much happy with it..very very much happy. =)
But I still can’t quite understand though why you still choose to love me with everything first - to the point that I always come first in your schedule, you say yes to every request I ask as long as it’s reasonable and it’s within your capability, and more..more than I can think of. And whenever I ask why, you say “Eh siyempre, ganun ka kaimportante sakin eh..Ganun lang talaga kita kamahal..na gusto ko lagi kang ok at masaya..” And I always end up crying whenever you tell me that..
It’s not that I don’t believe anything, it’s just that I’m too hard-headed to just absorb everything..haha, I guess it’s just because until now, di pa din talaga ako makapaniwala that you’re with me now..the most unexpected thing that has ever happened to me. But I’m very much happy with it..very very much happy. =)
Emancipation???
I was once this person who always relied on my parents in a lot of aspects. I know how to be independent at times, but it was then much easier not to. I lived by whole college life with them always having a say. I never thought that living in such a way is something that would hunt me after.
Then graduation came, still, I ended up having accomplished things because they were what my parents wanted - those were things they wished for me, they were what they’ve dreamed about for the last two decades. I didn’t hate them for that. I never would, because I know, I became, and still will become someone because of how things were.
But everything changed after that. I decided to work away from them only because I wanted to learn how to become an independent person - the REAL one. I accepted a job that is miles away from them for me to experience what its really like to be doing things for myself. I chose to leave them behind, and do things my own way.
Unfortunately, it all happened so sudden, that there was no room for thinking about things thoroughly. Decisions had to be made right then and there, or I would lose a very big opportunity, career-wise. So I didn’t have time to prepare and plan on my would-be life. I was left with only one option - that is to be “not-so-independent” (that was to live with some relative).
At first, I thought it would be the better option for me, since I was only given a day to pack my things and report to the office the day after. It was easier at first, since I only had to do SOME chores. I tried to help whenever I can. I did things, just so they won’t say anything against me. I followed what they wanted, to think they’re not even my parents. Months have passed. There were flaws every once in a while, but I kept them to myself, only because I didn’t want anyone to be affected (except for my boyfriend who knows every single thing that has happened because he’s the only one who I can talk who is not that much directly involved - just because he doesn’t know them in person).
Unfortunately, things got even more rough. Things have become very difficult. So I decided that I want to transfer. It would be not as easy as I may want to, but it’s far better than having them around. I had to undergo not-so-good situations, discussions, and confrontations. But I just took everything in just for my plan to push-through. It already is. Tomorrow will already be a new day.
Well, I thought everything will already be sailing smoothly. I was wrong. Here comes another glitch. My dream of finally being really independent is not coming true. For the past few days, my parents have somehow decided to monitor each and every move I make. They want me do things which I prefer not to. They want me to say things which isn’t the perfect time yet, according to my judgment. They text and call me every now and then, following-up on whether I did what they wanted me to do. It’s not that I am being disrespectful. But I am perfectly aware that I am already old enough to know what to do and what not to, what to say and when to say it. It’s not that I’m disregarding them as part of my life, but I want to decide for myself. If they won’t let me do things my way now, when will I be able to learn to live without them? When will I start to learn how to walk on my own feet?
For 20 long years, I have followed what they wanted. I know they care about me, but shouldn’t they realize that unless they give me full control over myself, I will always be like a child, unable to face the world without them, who will always rely on them? Now I’m starting to wish, that there be such thing as emancipation in here. I don’t want to grow old depending on them every now and then. I want to prove to myself that I can. I want to prove that they’ve thought me all the things I needed to survive in the real world. And they’ve given me the necessary advices on how I will overcome every situation. But I guess they’ll never understand that. Unlucky me, because they will always fight for what they know, which they believe is the best for me…BUT IT’S NOT. As the saying goes, “Parents say its talking back, we say its merely explaining why they are wrong.”
Then graduation came, still, I ended up having accomplished things because they were what my parents wanted - those were things they wished for me, they were what they’ve dreamed about for the last two decades. I didn’t hate them for that. I never would, because I know, I became, and still will become someone because of how things were.
But everything changed after that. I decided to work away from them only because I wanted to learn how to become an independent person - the REAL one. I accepted a job that is miles away from them for me to experience what its really like to be doing things for myself. I chose to leave them behind, and do things my own way.
Unfortunately, it all happened so sudden, that there was no room for thinking about things thoroughly. Decisions had to be made right then and there, or I would lose a very big opportunity, career-wise. So I didn’t have time to prepare and plan on my would-be life. I was left with only one option - that is to be “not-so-independent” (that was to live with some relative).
At first, I thought it would be the better option for me, since I was only given a day to pack my things and report to the office the day after. It was easier at first, since I only had to do SOME chores. I tried to help whenever I can. I did things, just so they won’t say anything against me. I followed what they wanted, to think they’re not even my parents. Months have passed. There were flaws every once in a while, but I kept them to myself, only because I didn’t want anyone to be affected (except for my boyfriend who knows every single thing that has happened because he’s the only one who I can talk who is not that much directly involved - just because he doesn’t know them in person).
Unfortunately, things got even more rough. Things have become very difficult. So I decided that I want to transfer. It would be not as easy as I may want to, but it’s far better than having them around. I had to undergo not-so-good situations, discussions, and confrontations. But I just took everything in just for my plan to push-through. It already is. Tomorrow will already be a new day.
Well, I thought everything will already be sailing smoothly. I was wrong. Here comes another glitch. My dream of finally being really independent is not coming true. For the past few days, my parents have somehow decided to monitor each and every move I make. They want me do things which I prefer not to. They want me to say things which isn’t the perfect time yet, according to my judgment. They text and call me every now and then, following-up on whether I did what they wanted me to do. It’s not that I am being disrespectful. But I am perfectly aware that I am already old enough to know what to do and what not to, what to say and when to say it. It’s not that I’m disregarding them as part of my life, but I want to decide for myself. If they won’t let me do things my way now, when will I be able to learn to live without them? When will I start to learn how to walk on my own feet?
For 20 long years, I have followed what they wanted. I know they care about me, but shouldn’t they realize that unless they give me full control over myself, I will always be like a child, unable to face the world without them, who will always rely on them? Now I’m starting to wish, that there be such thing as emancipation in here. I don’t want to grow old depending on them every now and then. I want to prove to myself that I can. I want to prove that they’ve thought me all the things I needed to survive in the real world. And they’ve given me the necessary advices on how I will overcome every situation. But I guess they’ll never understand that. Unlucky me, because they will always fight for what they know, which they believe is the best for me…BUT IT’S NOT. As the saying goes, “Parents say its talking back, we say its merely explaining why they are wrong.”
A Real Boyfriend
I don’t care if you have a boyfriend/husband or girlfriend/wife right now.
I don’t care if you are a guy or a woman or Michael Jackson.
Just read this, it will make a difference.
If only everyone could see this and understand it.
When she stares at your mouth… Kiss her
When she pushes you or hits you like a dummy because she thinks she’s stronger than you… Grab her and don’t let go
When she starts cursing at you trying to act all tough… Kiss her and tell her you love her
When she’s quiet… Ask her what’s wrong
When she ignores you… Give her your attention
When she pulls away… Pull her back
When you see her at her worst… Tell her she’s beautiful
When you see her start crying… Just hold her and don’t say a word
When you see her walking… Sneak up and hug her waist from behind
When she’s scared… Protect her
When she steals your favourite hoodie… Let her keep it and sleep with it for a night
When she teases you… Tease her back and make her laugh
When she doesn’t answer for a long timereassure her that everything is okay
When she looks at you with doubt… Back yourself up
When she says that she loves you… she really does more than you can understand
When she grabs at your hands… Hold her’s and play with her fingers
When she bumps into you…bump into her back and make her laugh
When she tells you a secret… keep it safe and untold
When she looks at you in your eyes…don’t look away until she does
When she says it’s over… she still wants you to be hers
When she reposts this bulletin… she wants you to read it
- Stay on the phone with her even if she’s not saying anything
- When she’s mad hug her tight and don’t let go
- When she says she’s ok don’t believe it, talk with her because 10 yrs later she’ll remember you
- Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her
-Treat her like she’s all that matters to you
- Stay up all night with her when she’s sick
- Watch her favourite movie with her or her favourite show even if you think it’s stupid
- Give her the world.
- Let her wear your clothes
-When she’s bored and sad, hang out with her
-Let her know she’s important.
- Don’t talk about other girls around her
- Kiss her in the pouring rain
- When she runs up to you crying, the first thing you say is:”Whose butt am i kicking baby?”
I don’t care if you are a guy or a woman or Michael Jackson.
Just read this, it will make a difference.
If only everyone could see this and understand it.
When she stares at your mouth… Kiss her
When she pushes you or hits you like a dummy because she thinks she’s stronger than you… Grab her and don’t let go
When she starts cursing at you trying to act all tough… Kiss her and tell her you love her
When she’s quiet… Ask her what’s wrong
When she ignores you… Give her your attention
When she pulls away… Pull her back
When you see her at her worst… Tell her she’s beautiful
When you see her start crying… Just hold her and don’t say a word
When you see her walking… Sneak up and hug her waist from behind
When she’s scared… Protect her
When she steals your favourite hoodie… Let her keep it and sleep with it for a night
When she teases you… Tease her back and make her laugh
When she doesn’t answer for a long timereassure her that everything is okay
When she looks at you with doubt… Back yourself up
When she says that she loves you… she really does more than you can understand
When she grabs at your hands… Hold her’s and play with her fingers
When she bumps into you…bump into her back and make her laugh
When she tells you a secret… keep it safe and untold
When she looks at you in your eyes…don’t look away until she does
When she says it’s over… she still wants you to be hers
When she reposts this bulletin… she wants you to read it
- Stay on the phone with her even if she’s not saying anything
- When she’s mad hug her tight and don’t let go
- When she says she’s ok don’t believe it, talk with her because 10 yrs later she’ll remember you
- Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her
-Treat her like she’s all that matters to you
- Stay up all night with her when she’s sick
- Watch her favourite movie with her or her favourite show even if you think it’s stupid
- Give her the world.
- Let her wear your clothes
-When she’s bored and sad, hang out with her
-Let her know she’s important.
- Don’t talk about other girls around her
- Kiss her in the pouring rain
- When she runs up to you crying, the first thing you say is:”Whose butt am i kicking baby?”
Fairytales
This was something I read in a newspaper article..it made me cry, which was uncalled for I think, but hey, I guess every girl really wants her own fairytale with a happy-ever-after ending…
“There is a part of every little girl’s heart that envisions her prince charming. At age three, it is usually of a man who can save her from the wrath of an evil stepmother, wake her from eternal slumber or give her that true love’s kiss.
In elementary school, he becomes the boy with the least cooties, the one who’s willing to cross the playground to share his Oreos even if it makes him a target for the week of all the other boys.
Come high school, it’s that boy you stand with at prom, who your father stared down at the door, who provided you with an experience complete with photos you will cringe at a decade later, a corsage that yellows in the refrigerator, and a faded memory of a night that seemed almost too magical to be real.
Nineteen years into this life, however, and still unwilling to give my heart away, I am still that same little girl who hopes for her prince charming. And although I wonder why it has taken you this long to sweep me off my feet and whisk me off to your palace on horseback, I know that it is probably because meeting you will be better than any fairytale I could’ve read as a kid.
…
However, I can’t promise you that I’d make the world’s most perfect princess. In fact I’ll probably keep you on your toes and amuse you with my eccentricities—there are a lot of them. I’ll probably steal a bunch of your T-shirts and turn them into shirt dresses, or drive you slightly mad with my obsessive compulsivity and my need to fix your collar constantly.
I can promise to be your best friend however—that person you can rant to after a rough day, the hand you can hold when you get sad, or the person you can text when situations get awkward.
I’ll probably mess up your hair sometimes and hug you for too long, but that’ll only be because I absolutely adore you. I’ll bury my head in your shoulder during scary movies and make you feel like superman when you kill those flying cockroaches that really shouldn’t exist. I’ll cook your favorite food on your birthday and try my best to make friends with your mom.
I’ll respect your nights-out with the boys and make you seem like the perfect guy to my barkada. I’ll watch basketball or soccer games with you, and not complain when you cheer too loudly at the TV set.
I’ll know the difference between giving you space and being constantly there for you—even if it means sitting and playing video games with you or taking hot chocolate runs when it rains.
I’ll listen to your music and we’ll go on epic adventures together—seeing the world, taking awesome pictures, eating awesome food, and never running out of things to tell each other along the way.
I won’t be waiting for you to sweep me off my feet and take me on a magic carpet ride, because I know I won’t need anything like that to fall for you—I will love you for you.
You will be that someone to make goofy faces with in pictures, to lace fingers with when I’m lonely, and to take long walks under the stars with on the beach.
You’ll be the guy who takes me the way I am—and will laugh as I burst into Disney song or pick out pink wallpaper.
You’ll be that someone I envision a future with—us filling out visa forms as we travel the universe, picking out our first dog together and arguing about what to name it, or being snap-happy stage parents in our preschooler’s annual mini-plays. And I keep hoping that maybe someday when we find each other, you will become that someone whose smile I wake up to in the morning and the last one I speak to every night.
…Please know that I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with you.
…With the hope I will be yours for always.”
“There is a part of every little girl’s heart that envisions her prince charming. At age three, it is usually of a man who can save her from the wrath of an evil stepmother, wake her from eternal slumber or give her that true love’s kiss.
In elementary school, he becomes the boy with the least cooties, the one who’s willing to cross the playground to share his Oreos even if it makes him a target for the week of all the other boys.
Come high school, it’s that boy you stand with at prom, who your father stared down at the door, who provided you with an experience complete with photos you will cringe at a decade later, a corsage that yellows in the refrigerator, and a faded memory of a night that seemed almost too magical to be real.
Nineteen years into this life, however, and still unwilling to give my heart away, I am still that same little girl who hopes for her prince charming. And although I wonder why it has taken you this long to sweep me off my feet and whisk me off to your palace on horseback, I know that it is probably because meeting you will be better than any fairytale I could’ve read as a kid.
…
However, I can’t promise you that I’d make the world’s most perfect princess. In fact I’ll probably keep you on your toes and amuse you with my eccentricities—there are a lot of them. I’ll probably steal a bunch of your T-shirts and turn them into shirt dresses, or drive you slightly mad with my obsessive compulsivity and my need to fix your collar constantly.
I can promise to be your best friend however—that person you can rant to after a rough day, the hand you can hold when you get sad, or the person you can text when situations get awkward.
I’ll probably mess up your hair sometimes and hug you for too long, but that’ll only be because I absolutely adore you. I’ll bury my head in your shoulder during scary movies and make you feel like superman when you kill those flying cockroaches that really shouldn’t exist. I’ll cook your favorite food on your birthday and try my best to make friends with your mom.
I’ll respect your nights-out with the boys and make you seem like the perfect guy to my barkada. I’ll watch basketball or soccer games with you, and not complain when you cheer too loudly at the TV set.
I’ll know the difference between giving you space and being constantly there for you—even if it means sitting and playing video games with you or taking hot chocolate runs when it rains.
I’ll listen to your music and we’ll go on epic adventures together—seeing the world, taking awesome pictures, eating awesome food, and never running out of things to tell each other along the way.
I won’t be waiting for you to sweep me off my feet and take me on a magic carpet ride, because I know I won’t need anything like that to fall for you—I will love you for you.
You will be that someone to make goofy faces with in pictures, to lace fingers with when I’m lonely, and to take long walks under the stars with on the beach.
You’ll be the guy who takes me the way I am—and will laugh as I burst into Disney song or pick out pink wallpaper.
You’ll be that someone I envision a future with—us filling out visa forms as we travel the universe, picking out our first dog together and arguing about what to name it, or being snap-happy stage parents in our preschooler’s annual mini-plays. And I keep hoping that maybe someday when we find each other, you will become that someone whose smile I wake up to in the morning and the last one I speak to every night.
…Please know that I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with you.
…With the hope I will be yours for always.”
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